Have you ever made a sexual advance toward your wife only to have her reject you? I don't know a man who hasn't experienced this. There a number of reasons why this might happen. She may be tired. It could that she isn't feeling well. Perhaps she is feels that you only want her for sex.It may be that she didn't understand that you wanted to be sexual because you didn't communicate it to her. Maybe she has shut down due to your being angry towards her.
As a Christian man how do react in these times. Do you get angry and storm out of the room? Do you shut down and not talk to her? Many times we will use the rejection as an opportunity to act out sexually. More often this will involve using masturbation or pornography.We can't rationalize our sin. You are still responsible for your actions. You are under God's authority not your own.
The next time you feel rejected by your wife hang in there and work through it with her.Don't use it as an excuse to sin. Tell yourself you are not going to masturbate or look at pornography. Ask God to give you strength to withstand the desire to sin. For many of us this will be a significant key to winning the battle with sexual sin. It is called taking personal responsibility. 

May God be with you
Tom


 


Comments

Sam W
08/06/2013 16:55

Many thanks to Tom. His guidance and wisdom saved my marriage
He is truly a true believer of Jesus Christ. He uses God's word as his
guidebook. However, his advice can only work in someone's life if
they chose to submit to the Holy Spirit, admit and repent of their sexual sin.

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12/22/2015 20:44

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12/31/2015 14:17

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12/31/2015 14:18

Thank you pack on his interesting article this

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01/03/2016 10:38

Thanks for the great information. Like a lot of women, I was frustrated because I didn't really know how to talk to my man in bed. My advice to other women is to just not jump in and start saying some complicated script that doesn't sound like you. Just react to what is happening and if something feels good, say it. Start with moans and sighs and then start saying your partner's name. Work up to "Yes!" or "I love that," and maybe a breathy "Please, don't stop." Of course, you don't have to do all this in one night. Just take it slowly and you will get better. Here's a helpful video that also made it a lot easier for me to talk sexy in bed: http://bit.ly/1Jn9peW

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01/03/2016 15:08

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01/24/2016 09:50

This is a bad sign I must say

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